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Suspected infidelity and relationship enquiries
For doubts about a partner, or worries about abuse, drug use or an ex-partner you share children with.
Find out more about suspected infidelity and relationship enquiriesPrivate Investigations
When something does not feel right at home, you deserve the truth. Did It In Heels provides lawful, discreet private investigation services for anyone who needs the facts, including those who suspect a partner is cheating, who are living with an abusive or drug-using partner, or who share children with an ex-partner. From the very first conversation, you will be treated with care and in confidence.
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Here to help
Did It In Heels is run by Poppy, a woman who believes that a woman can do anything a man can do, and can do it in heels. The firm is here to help you find out what is really going on, so you can make decisions about your relationships, your home and your family based on facts. Poppy has a particular specialism in helping women, and she also works with men and anyone else who needs discreet, lawful help.
Whatever has brought you here, you will be listened to without judgement and given an honest view of what an investigation can and cannot achieve. Every enquiry is treated in confidence, every method is lawful and proportionate, and every finding is reported clearly and factually.
Who we help
These are the situations we specialise in. If yours is different, please still get in touch.
If you have a doubt you cannot settle, we can look into it calmly and lawfully, so that what you decide next rests on facts rather than fear or guesswork.
We can help you gather a careful, factual record that you, the police or your solicitor may need, always with your safety first. We never confront anyone on your behalf.
Living with someone else’s addiction is lonely and frightening. We listen without judgement and can help establish the facts, discreetly, where you have real concerns.
When you share children with someone, knowing the facts matters. We can help establish information that you or your solicitor may need, handled with care for everyone involved.
If you or your children are in immediate danger, call 999. If you cannot speak, stay on the line and, on a mobile, press 55 when prompted. We gather facts lawfully; we are not an emergency service.
Services
Every instruction is scoped carefully, agreed in writing and carried out within the law. Relationship enquiries come first; other lawful work can also be discussed.
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For doubts about a partner, or worries about abuse, drug use or an ex-partner you share children with.
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Discreet, planned observation, recorded accurately so you have an independent account to rely on.
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Clear, factual reports with observations, timelines and supporting material you can share with your solicitor.
Find out more about evidence gathering and investigation reports04
A clearer picture of a new partner, or anyone else, before you trust them with your home, money or family.
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Lawful research and enquiries to establish a current whereabouts or point of contact.
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Methodical research into publicly accessible information, verified and put in context.
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A careful, evidence-led approach when something does not add up.
Find out more about fraud-related investigations08
Discreet fact-finding for employers and businesses dealing with sensitive internal matters.
Find out more about corporate and workplace investigations09
Other lawful investigative work can be discussed and agreed. If we cannot help, we will say so plainly.
Talk to usOur standards
Three words on every document we produce, and the standard behind every enquiry we take on.
Your enquiry, your information and our findings are treated in confidence and shared only with those who need them for authorised purposes.
Methods that are lawful, proportionate and appropriate. Records that separate fact from opinion. Fees agreed in writing before work begins.
Clear communication, honest expectations and careful, accurate reporting, including when the answer is not the one you hoped for.
What to expect
A clear, straightforward process, so you always know where things stand.
Call, email or use the enquiry form. Share as much or as little as you are comfortable with to begin.
We listen, ask the right questions and consider whether and how we can lawfully help. We may ask for identification and to understand your purpose.
The scope, fees and expenses are confirmed in writing before any chargeable work begins. No surprises.
Carried out with care, skill and discretion. Any material change to scope or cost is discussed with you first.
The reporting agreed at the start, presented clearly and factually, so you can decide what happens next.
Lawful practice
No investigator can promise a particular result, and we never will. What we do promise is careful, lawful work and an honest account of what we find.
We do not confront or approach anyone on your behalf, and we are not a substitute for the police, social services or a solicitor. We may decline an instruction where there are concerns about legality, safety, privacy, harassment or misuse of information.
Confidential enquiries
There is no obligation and no judgement — just a discreet conversation about what is happening and whether we can lawfully help.