Private Investigations · United Kingdom

Discreet enquiries. Real answers.

When something does not feel right at home, you deserve the truth. Did It In Heels provides lawful, discreet private investigation services for anyone who needs the facts, including those who suspect a partner is cheating, who are living with an abusive or drug-using partner, or who share children with an ex-partner. From the very first conversation, you will be treated with care and in confidence.

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Did It In Heels logo: a woman in a trench coat, fedora and pink heels holding a magnifying glass, set against a pink and green night-time city skyline.

Here to help

You do not have to work it out on your own.

Did It In Heels is run by Poppy, a woman who believes that a woman can do anything a man can do, and can do it in heels. The firm is here to help you find out what is really going on, so you can make decisions about your relationships, your home and your family based on facts. Poppy has a particular specialism in helping women, and she also works with men and anyone else who needs discreet, lawful help.

Whatever has brought you here, you will be listened to without judgement and given an honest view of what an investigation can and cannot achieve. Every enquiry is treated in confidence, every method is lawful and proportionate, and every finding is reported clearly and factually.

More about Did It In Heels

Who we help

The situations we specialise in

These are the situations we specialise in. If yours is different, please still get in touch.

How we can help

i. A partner you think is cheating

If you have a doubt you cannot settle, we can look into it calmly and lawfully, so that what you decide next rests on facts rather than fear or guesswork.

ii. A partner who is abusive or controlling

We can help you gather a careful, factual record that you, the police or your solicitor may need, always with your safety first. We never confront anyone on your behalf.

iii. A partner or ex-partner using drugs

Living with someone else’s addiction is lonely and frightening. We listen without judgement and can help establish the facts, discreetly, where you have real concerns.

iv. An ex-partner you share children with

When you share children with someone, knowing the facts matters. We can help establish information that you or your solicitor may need, handled with care for everyone involved.

If you or your children are in immediate danger, call 999. If you cannot speak, stay on the line and, on a mobile, press 55 when prompted. We gather facts lawfully; we are not an emergency service.

Services

How we can help

Every instruction is scoped carefully, agreed in writing and carried out within the law. Relationship enquiries come first; other lawful work can also be discussed.

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Something else?

Other lawful investigative work can be discussed and agreed. If we cannot help, we will say so plainly.

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Our standards

Confidential. Professional. Reliable.

Three words on every document we produce, and the standard behind every enquiry we take on.

Confidential

Your enquiry, your information and our findings are treated in confidence and shared only with those who need them for authorised purposes.

Professional

Methods that are lawful, proportionate and appropriate. Records that separate fact from opinion. Fees agreed in writing before work begins.

Reliable

Clear communication, honest expectations and careful, accurate reporting, including when the answer is not the one you hoped for.

What to expect

From first call to final report

A clear, straightforward process, so you always know where things stand.

  1. Get in touch

    Call, email or use the enquiry form. Share as much or as little as you are comfortable with to begin.

  2. A confidential conversation

    We listen, ask the right questions and consider whether and how we can lawfully help. We may ask for identification and to understand your purpose.

  3. A written quotation

    The scope, fees and expenses are confirmed in writing before any chargeable work begins. No surprises.

  4. The investigation

    Carried out with care, skill and discretion. Any material change to scope or cost is discussed with you first.

  5. Your report

    The reporting agreed at the start, presented clearly and factually, so you can decide what happens next.

Lawful practice

Honest about what an investigation can do

No investigator can promise a particular result, and we never will. What we do promise is careful, lawful work and an honest account of what we find.

We do not confront or approach anyone on your behalf, and we are not a substitute for the police, social services or a solicitor. We may decline an instruction where there are concerns about legality, safety, privacy, harassment or misuse of information.

What we will never do

  • Intercept calls, messages or other communications unlawfully
  • Access accounts, phones or devices without authority
  • Trespass on private property
  • Impersonate anyone to obtain confidential records
  • Act on instructions intended for harassment, stalking or intimidation

Confidential enquiries

Ready to talk? In complete confidence.

There is no obligation and no judgement — just a discreet conversation about what is happening and whether we can lawfully help.